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Real Friends Talk About Race
Bridging the Gaps Through Uncomfortable Conversations
1 of 1 copy available
Having conversations about race is uncomfortable. But for progress between individuals (and our communities) to happen, we need to be able to speak openly and honestly. Podcast hosts of The Kinswomen Yseult and Hannah use their own friendship and experiences from different racial backgrounds to offer guidance on navigating these layered conversations.
In Real Friends Talk About Race, the duo share their two perspectives on the ways in which culture, history, and white supremacy have prevented us from having the skills to build trust and healthy relationships across race. Yseult and Hannah approach these topics with love and candor—calling readers in (not out) to confront hard realities and their own internalized biases, while also sharing prescriptive advice, encouragement, and a sense of community.
Real Friends Talk About Race is a must-read for anyone looking to listen, learn, and feel empowered to have meaningful conversations about race.
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Release date
April 4, 2023 -
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OverDrive Read
- ISBN: 9780369723970
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EPUB ebook
- ISBN: 9780369723970
- File size: 541 KB
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Languages
- English
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Reviews
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Starred review from April 1, 2023
This crucial text centers on the perspectives of two friends, Mukantabana (of Rwandan and Jewish descent) and Summerhill (who is white and Jewish), hosts of the podcast The Kinswomen. Conversations around race are difficult in friendships because of the fear that talking about the subject will kill ""good vibes."" Mukantabana has feared losing friends, dealing with white fragility or defensiveness, or being treated like Google. Interracial relationships are layered ""and require a different kind of emotional labor."" The authors also push white people to be accountable for harm they can cause, even if unintentional, and to make real changes. They are aware of the racial power dynamics in their friendship and acknowledge that while antiracism work centers on white people, it's essential for BIPOC ""to have a space to talk about our experiences."" Allyship is a continuous journey, and people must be willing to put in the time. Their perspectives shine a much-needed critical light on how white allies can listen and make meaningful actions toward dismantling the status quo. Accessible and featuring helpful Q&As throughout, the book breaks down everything from communication, allyship, white supremacy, microaggressions, and newer concepts such as blackfishing. Essential for public libraries and book clubs.COPYRIGHT(2023) Booklist, ALL RIGHTS RESERVED.
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